Frequently Asked Questions

Q. I’m a first-time visitor. What should I expect? 

A. Expect to have a blast!  What you will find at Secret Sinsations are the most exciting, adult-oriented daily activities and nightly entertainment.  This sets the perfect scene for adults to be adults, meet other guests, and enjoy a stress-free, safe environment where you decide where your limits will take you.  For the ultimate weekend getaway, keep your mind open and unleash your imagination. 

Q. Do I have to call Secret Sinsations to register if I’m a COUPLE?

A. No, you will register and receive your wristbands the day of the event in person at our registration table either in the lobby or poolside. 

ALL SINGLE PEOPLE ARE LIMITED AND MUST BE APPROVED CALL 304-679-2153

Q. Can I come without renting a room?

A. Yes! You do not need to rent a room to attend a party.

Q. Do I have to rent a room for both nights?

A. Yes, you must rent a room for both nights. We cater to our customers that want to stay the entire weekend, so if you rented for one night that would take away from someone wanting both nights. Staying both nights is fully recommended to get the full experience of the parties. 

Q. Can I book online?

A. No You can NOT book online.  Please call the hotel directly to make a reservation. TALK TO THE FRONT DESK NOT THE RESERVATION CENTER.  Mention SECRET SINSATIONS or the hotel will deny you a reservation.

Q. What do I wear to a hotel takeover?

A. Our general rule of thumb is “dress to impress” and stay within your comfort zone. Sometimes we have a particular “theme”, you are not required to dress the theme, it just makes the event a little more interesting. Men usually wear nice jeans or dress pants with a button-up, dress or “collared” shirt. Women usually wear sexy super short and/or low-cut club-type dresses with heels. For the after parties, the attire is completely up to you…you can go “as bare as you dare” with the exception of the hotel lobby or outside.

Q. Where do I pay and when?

A. You can register and get your wristband at our registration table located in the hotel lobby or poolside the Day of the event in person.  You cannot purchase them online.

Q. Do you have to be a member?

A. No, there are no Memberships to attend the parties.

Q. What if I have friends who are not on any Lifestyle sites, can they attend?

A. Yes, as long as they are referred by a Lifestyle member. They must have a referral because we are a private party that is not open or advertised to the general public.

Q. What are the basic behavioral guidelines? 

A. Disruptive behavior/activity includes any physical or verbal activity that is abusive or defames any member, guest, employee, or hotel staff.  No means no even if it began with yes. Asking permission is a must! NO sexual behavior in the pool or hot tub.   If anyone’s behavior offends you, please report it to the management immediately.  Any complaints will be addressed immediately.

Q. When are check-in and check-out?

A. Guests staying at the party hotel can check onto the property and utilize all facilities at 3 pm Friday, after receiving your wristbands at registration. All guests must have a wristband to be on hotel property. Check-out is 11am Sunday morning.

Q. What is your reservation/cancellation policy?

A. All guests must call the hotel directly to understand the hotel’s policies. Secret Sinsations is the host of the party and must also follow the hotel’s rules. 

Q. Can I make a reservation last minute?

A. You can but we recommend you book early! Or parties sell out very quickly and we cannot guarantee rooms will be available for a last-minute reservation. The early bird gets the … We’ll you know! 

Q. Do you have an age minimum?

A. Yes, a minimum age requirement of 21 years.

Q. Are you couples only?

A. No, we have couples, single females, and single males, transsexual, and nonbinary. We do however limit and screen our SINGLE attendees. We ask all singles call 304-679-2153 to be approved.  

Q. What is the average age of guests?

A. We have guests of all ages! but, the average 30 to 50.

Q. Is discretion guaranteed?

A. We have very strict rules in place to protect the privacy of all guests.  We take your privacy very seriously and will not provide any information about our members or guests. We do not allow pictures! Pictures are only allowed in the photo booth area, or in your rooms.

Q. BYOB?

A. Yes, to your room. If the hotel has a restaurant or bar, you are not allowed to BYOB  into the bar or restaurant. All hotels the Secret Sinsations takes over are NO glass hotels. Please bring plastic cups or one can be provided for you. Please read all info about the party, we will let you know about the amenities of the hotel. Or please do not hesitate to ask.

Q. Is food available?

A. We provide small snacks on both nights. Some of the hotels that we use have a restaurant/bar. Please check the information about the hotel to know what to pack.

Q. I am a single. What do I have to do to be approved?

A. Please Call or text 304-679-2153 or email party@mysecretsinsations.com. Be prepared to answer questions about your lifestyle. Your first and last name, and your referral’s name and phone number.  

Q. What are the pool hours?

A. Our pool is open daily from 8 am–8 pm.  No lifeguard is on duty, swim at your own risk.

Q. Is smoking allowed?  

A. Smoking is not allowed in any of our buildings or rooms.  For the comfort of all our guests, smoking is also prohibited while food is being served.  Please smoke only in designated smoking areas and dispose of cigarettes in the receptacles provided.

Q. Can I take pictures or video during my stay? 

A. No!  Privacy is very important to many members and guests at Secret Sinsations.  Photography and video of any kind is strictly prohibited.  In the comfort of your own room, or we provide a photo booth at every party where you are allowed to snap all pictures. Sorry, you’ll have to forget the selfies while in the common areas.

Q. My phone has a camera, can I use it at the party?

A. Certainly, you can use your mobile phone.  However, you may not use it to take pictures or videos at any time.  Additionally, you may not have a phone at the pool.  This is one of our biggest rules and the one that is the most often violated.  Please understand, that we take this issue very seriously.  Repeated violations of this policy will result in removal from the hotel. 

Q. Are pets allowed?  

A. Please call the hotel directly to understand their pet policies.

Q. Are the hotel and staff employees friendly?

A. Our staff is a group of amazing people!  However, do NOT assume they are part of the lifestyle! Secret Sinsations instructs all its employees to treat each guest and member with dignity and respect regardless of their feelings about this lifestyle.  In return, we expect our guests and members to allow our employees to work without being subjected to their values, either in conversations or actions toward them.  Please do not proposition any employee during your visit.

A side note:

The rules are simple and in everyone’s best interest.  Let’s not make it awkward.  Please respect others and our policies. If you have any other questions, please feel free to contact us!